Well, I just found out that his parents know... they logged on as him on the forum, read his PM's, and apparently followed the thread. So THAT part's relatively taken care of.
We are probably going to go into a Planned Parenthood-type place tomorrow while we're both off work/school to talk to a counselor about where to go from here, how to tell MY parents, and what plans and preparations need to be made. They're a volunteer-based organization that'll take care of anything from birth control to birth. So I guess I'll see how that goes. I don't remember the name of the place. I'm just concerned now that his parents (and mine, once we tell them) will try telling us what to do and how to handle things because they think we're not capable or responsible enough to make our own decisions. I know I'll have to pick my battles and at times stand my ground, but I reeeeally don't feel the need to be treated like a small child. Any suggestions on how to handle this? I mean, I'm not asking you girls to make my decisions and figure out how to "fix" things for me, but you seem to have a lot of experience and insight, and I'm finding a lot of help and support here, more than I thought I could find anywhere. Thank you all so much!!
I really truly do appreciate every word that anyone has said.