I think you should tell your mom first. Moms and daughters have that bond thing going on, so i think she's likely to be upset, but still loving and supportive. As far as your dad goes, i'm not sure. A public place might not be the best if he's got a flaring temper. It sounds like you are going to be okay though. You've already started making plans for the baby, you obviously are a person with an admirable set of values that your child will benefit from and you know you have many places to go if you need help. Although i am not religious, i think it's great that you're going to go to a church counselor. And i think your parents will superize you, no matter how pissed or hurt they are at first. They love you, and there's probably nothing you can do to make that go away. Good luck, we're all thinking about you.
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