It is hard to have sex with an ex that you have shared a relationship with. The old feelings can return almost immediately. I have never trusted these and gone with my gut on most occasions. On one rare occasion, I had sex with an ex that lived around 200 miles from me (I had transferred colleges). She had cheated on me in the first relationship. The sex was just as good as ever, and I had some vague thoughts about getting back together. I was handed a gift in a way. She called me up about a week later and told me that she had just had an outbreak of herpes, and I should get checked. It turned out that she was still in her incubation period after getting initially infected when we had sex. I got checked and was clear. However that was a pretty clear signal to me for the future.
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