It is going to take a bit of time. When a girl broke up with me (one that I was close to getting engaged to) that I had lived with for a year, it took me a good 6 months before I was able to really feel comfortable being alone. There were times I was relieved it was over (it wouldn't have worked long term), but I still wanted to have someone around. I was able to date during that time, but it was at least a couple of months until I would have been able to give anyone any sort of commitment. Give yourself the time to heal. These are the times you really find out about yourself.
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