Having a baby is a very serious thing. It is a lifelong commitment, and personally I wasn't even sure I was ready when we had our first when I was 30. We tried for several months to get pregnant, but when we measured her ovulation it happened exactly when it should have. With irregular cycles, STDs, bad use of the pill or other contraceptive devices, use of a condom is mandatory when you don't want to have a child. The wife and I use the pill only now as if we had another child it would be fine. However we have had sex for 12 years whenever and wherever with the pill and the only times she got pregnant were exactly when we planned it and she went off the pill.
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