It's not just about the phone calls. It's all the other relationship things.
Say you see a group of girls out in a bar. There are 3 maybe 4. But there is that one who caught your eye. Chances are, you're not going to approach her. Why? Cause of her friends. What if they make fun of you somehow? You don't want to go into a pack of girls like that.
Why not? Take the chance!
I know I follow dating rules, and I wish I didn't. There are many times when I see an attractive guy but I don't approach him. It's more because I'm shy than because I think the guy should do the approaching.
__________________
Absence is to love what wind is to fire. It extinguishes the small, it enkindles the great.
|