I hate relationship rules too....which isn't to say I never follow them. But rules I refuse to accept:
*He has to pay
*He gets to say "I love you" first
*In fact, he should make all the first moves
*You should wait "X" amount of time before making love
*You should wait "X" amount of time before saying "I love you"
Do what feels right. That's what my most current relationship has taught me. Follow your feelings...everything else will work itself out eventually.
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