As long as we are both comfortable I like trying lots of new things. As far as the roughness factor, every now and then I will tease him and play with him until he goes nuts and wants it right now, but he will always stop if I tell him no, even after I have pushed him that far. I've only done that once because he wanted anal that time and I wasn't comfortable or ready and it really hurt. He immediately stopped and then made up for it! But normally it is just playful biting and roughness. Nothing has ever happened with any kind of force. I couldn't do it and I know my SO couldn't either.
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Cain: I know what you're doing. I've lead troops into battle before.
DG: And, how am I doing?
Cain: Well, there's less *hugging* when I do it
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