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A tough subject demanding political correctness; voted no. I will admit all I have to go on is how I think I would react or what kind of life I think I would have had. Ive accidently walked in on my folks in the past; not that I cared to get anymore of the accidental glimpse of the site- if it would have been my dad going at it with another man. . .no comment
I guess Im a little backwards, but thats due to me not knowing anyone who is gay. Do gays truly try to adopt? Im not inquiring to ridicule anyone, but is anyone that voted yes gay themselves? Im just wondering what their perspective is; if they see any potetnial problems that mya differ from someone who is straght. Would they hide their physical affection in front of the child; keeping that aspect "hidden". Kind of like the conventional goodbye kiss in the morning when spouses go their seperate directions and such. Let's say a boy doesnt turn out to be gay and he has 2 gay fathers; will they go to football games and cheer for their son? Would their son even be on a team.
they are pointless scenerios that dont mention anything about love, but I can think of thousands more just like them that would give me a difficult time, but again it boils down to me not understanding. I suppose beyond everything if a person is true to their word and themselves everything else is secondary and workable.
If anyone here is gay and deosnt have a problem saying so Im trying to understand when you say a person doenst choose to be gay. SO is it just like me for instance not really ever making a chioice that a females body turns me on; they just do. If I were gay males would just do it for me? Or is it a curiosity thing that one day a person decides to act upon? I dont understand. Thats not to say Im not trying to.
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