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BentNotTwisted · 10-10-2003, 08:05 AM

I made it clear to my wife, before we got married that if she (or I) became obese it would be grounds for divorce. We were both healthy, active people when we dated and IMO if either of us gained a hundred or more pounds after marriage it would indicate a serious emotional (think eating addiction) problem. I love my wife dearly and I don't want anyone to think I would dump her if she put on 30 or 50 pounds, but it would be a strong reason to start talking about the weight gain and what was causing it.
That said, my wife weighed 150 when we married and she became pregnant 4 months later with our first child. After the baby was born she breast fed and took the baby for walks in the carriage. Within 6 months she weighed less than when she became pregnant. I think the weight loss was a combination of both breast feeding and some exercise.

BTW, danna, your wife has a hot bod, very similar to my wife's. I only wish I could get my wife to pose in the nude!

10-10-2003, 08:05 AM	#7 (permalink)
BentNotTwisted Optimistic Skeptic Location: Midway between a Beehive and Centennial	I made it clear to my wife, before we got married that if she (or I) became obese it would be grounds for divorce. We were both healthy, active people when we dated and IMO if either of us gained a hundred or more pounds after marriage it would indicate a serious emotional (think eating addiction) problem. I love my wife dearly and I don't want anyone to think I would dump her if she put on 30 or 50 pounds, but it would be a strong reason to start talking about the weight gain and what was causing it. That said, my wife weighed 150 when we married and she became pregnant 4 months later with our first child. After the baby was born she breast fed and took the baby for walks in the carriage. Within 6 months she weighed less than when she became pregnant. I think the weight loss was a combination of both breast feeding and some exercise. BTW, danna, your wife has a hot bod, very similar to my wife's. I only wish I could get my wife to pose in the nude! __________________ IS THAT IT ???!!! Do you even know what 'it' is? When the last man dies for just words that he said... We Shall Be Free Last edited by BentNotTwisted; 10-10-2003 at 08:08 AM..