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long post warning: if you dont care, skip and read last 4 lines, if any of this post.
setup: last year, I met a gal, we have been friends since then, nothing more, I am not a character in this story. She had a long distance thing going with a guy (who currently lives with me... great guy). They were together for over 2 years, and had plans on marriage, were already engaged, the works.
She met another of my friends, and he got in close, and split them apart, and started going out with her this year. Justin (ex b/f, my roommate) and Luke (other guy) are not best of friends now, but that notwithstanding, Luke and the woman involved in all this are no longer together and not speaking anymore.
Justin still is her friend, they talk, and he helps her when she has her emotional breakdowns, but will probably not get right back with her withoug some serious consideration, because, being of italian background, he holds trust and respect very high, and it will take a lot of time to repair it if it ever does mend.
Anyway, that all said, if shes been cheating, take a big step back and look at your position. Trust and respect are the most valuable currency you will ever trade in in personal relationships. Think of the cost, and then make your choice.
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