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Originally posted by telekinetic
Well, I've just kind of 'dealt with it' for the past two months...I do care for her, and I didn't expect it to still be bothering me this far afterwards. Her attitude when I want to discuss seems to be "why must you be mean and rub in my face the horrible things I've done in the past?"
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Classic female evasion behavior. I say that with apologies to the many women on this board who are enlightened enough not to stoop to such things. She messed you over, but you're the bad guy because you're making her feel bad by not forgetting all about it.... yeah, run. She doesn't sound like she's mature enough to come to terms with the consequences of her own behavior. Which means, anything she does to hurt you will _always_ be your fault. And she'll keep doing it as long as you put up with it, or until somebody she likes better comes along. Then she'll drop you and justify it by saying that she has to leave because you don't trust her or something.
Believe me, I have seen this in action. Fortunately not done to me personally.