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Originally posted by forkies
as for advice: JUST BE HONEST WITH HIM. you have no reservations coming on here and asking for advice from total strangers...if you are truly close to this guy as a friend and value your relationship, it should be possible to talk about it intelligently, honestly, and reasonably.
take care, and i hope everything works out!
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That's the core of the problem, internet gives me anonymity and makes it much easier to ask for advice. If I fu*k it up in rl i have to live with it for the rest of my life.
I did as SecretMethod70 Suggested because it seemed like the most sensible way to handle it without being forced to confront him. He has yet not told me that he is gay but i have a verry strong hunch that he is. But then again I could have been wrong and if I had confronted him (even in a sensitive manner) it would have caused some serious damage to our friendship.
The idea to say something about an old gf was perfect. No risk of trashing our friendship.
Thanks for your advice though.