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Originally posted by Dorito2
I don't want anything to do with him. I want him to know that I've had enough of his shit, and that what he does is unreasonable, and he's going to lose his daughter as soon as she has money to move out.
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I've put up with a LOT with my parents...well my mom, my dad's patient one actually, and I've been yelled at plenty, much like you described for your girlfriend. At it's worst, I didn't have an understanding SO like your girlfriend does [you]. Believe me it's scary to face these sorts of situations with asian parents and sometimes/most times it's got nothing to do with backbone.
BUT. maybe you're girlfriend actually does want to move out etc. i dunno, but despite how things went with me, i still love my parents. no really. and i couldn't bring myself to move out based on being yelled at before. Currently my relationship with my mom is much smoother, but it's been hard work working it out. For me, no matter how unreasonable my mom was or even if she is still, *I* wouldn't want to be 'lost' to my parents, because after all, they're still my parents.
Moving out doesn't seem like the right thing to do so much as being able to get her parents to understand her and possibly her to understand her parents.