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Jim Kata - I didn't drive her home that night because I couldn't. I also live with my family and we only have one car and it was being used that night. Our original plans were to stay out longer and I would drive her home later that night, sometime after midnight (it was our six month anniversary that day).
Her family has three cars but she's not allowed to drive any of them, she isn't allowed to take public transport after dark. My family only has one car and I refill my car with petrol every single week driving her around, picking her up, taking her home, etc.
We both decided that that night, since her parents bailed on us and changed our plans at the very last minute, they could come and pick her up. If they wanted her home before midnight they can come and pick her up themselves, since they changed our plans and ruined our night, and I had no car then anyway.
That's why I couldn't drive her home, and even if I did have a car, I wanted them to do it, to experience for one night the effort I go to so as not to inconvenience them, and he couldn't even stand picking up his own daughter once.
I have always been incredibly polite when I'm a guest at their house, I've never agreed with the way they have raised their children, but the family has never been my business before. But now that the father has come to my house and shouted at her he is not welcome here again.
The next time I pick her up to go out, I am going to tell her father that I am not going to her house anymore, when I pick her up I won't go to the door anymore. I don't want her father on my property, so it's only reasonable that I don't enter their property.
Idon't want anything to do with him. I want him to know that I've had enough of his shit, and that what he does is unreasonable, and he's going to lose his daughter as soon as she has money to move out.
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