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Harshaw · 09-30-2003, 07:40 PM

Some of you probably know my girlfriend is out in California somewhere doing God knows what. I've decided just for my sake of mind to tell myself she isn't cheating on me, even though it is a possibility. What I am wondering is, 1) if your SO cheats on you once, would you rather know? Or be left in the dark? 2)If you found out your SO had an affair, could you forgive and stay in the relationship?

I think I would rather not know if it was a one time thing. As far as a huge affair, I think while I am dating someone, I could probably let it go once. Dating is not marrage, I would count it under part of the experimentation that goes on during dating. However, if we were married, I don't know if I could forgive.

09-30-2003, 07:40 PM	#1 (permalink)
Harshaw Is mad at you. Location: Bored in Sacramento	Cheating, how much is too much? Some of you probably know my girlfriend is out in California somewhere doing God knows what. I've decided just for my sake of mind to tell myself she isn't cheating on me, even though it is a possibility. What I am wondering is, 1) if your SO cheats on you once, would you rather know? Or be left in the dark? 2)If you found out your SO had an affair, could you forgive and stay in the relationship? I think I would rather not know if it was a one time thing. As far as a huge affair, I think while I am dating someone, I could probably let it go once. Dating is not marrage, I would count it under part of the experimentation that goes on during dating. However, if we were married, I don't know if I could forgive. __________________ This too shall pass.