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I do like the rough stuff. Haven't really done a lot of it. Have gotten welts and bruises and lots of rough sex with Hubby.Have two other couples that we've gotten to know. I have sat and talked to the guys in person and in chat and we've discussed what goes and what doesn't. One of them has held me down, spanked me, and taken me hard. The other is "well endowed" and gets pretty deep - enough to be painful. I enjoy that. He has taken me on my stomach and gone long and hard to the point where I was asking him to stop but not saying the safe word. Another time he had me on my back, held me firm and did me hard and rough, slapping, biting and kissing hard. I ended up having multiple orgasms for about 10 minutes straight without a break that time. I was exhausted.
I think the matter of the pain mixed with pleasure just intensifies the whole thing for me. It's also a matter of pushing myself, seeing how far I can go without saying the safe word. It's a satisfing feeling to be able to do some thing for the man that many other women wouldn't/even couldn't do.
The pain, helplessnes and slight fear mixed with trust in him and a feeling of power over yourself makes for such an intense experience. I have enjoyed it and would like to do more.
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