Well it's a good thing that my hubby LOVES going down on me. I do usually need something to get me going. If he was to come in the room and say let's go do it, I would go but i couldn't walk into the room, strip and go at it, I would still need a min. of foreplay. Doesn't take a lot to get me going
I usually stay up later than my hubby and so I have been known to watch a little porn which will get me wet in a min. and suprise him in bed