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I know this might sound strange but 99.9% probability of separation will probably change to 50% if you are upfront and genuinly sorry for "your" mistake.
We often commit to hard stances when we are only imagining a situation. That changes rapidly when it becomes a reality. The key thing here though is how real you are in wanting to keep the relationship and how hard you are prepared to work to make it work. Believe me you will have to work very hard at it to regain the trust and find a new way of working together.
Your lives together will probably change quite radically, maybe it should anyway.
Key question here thought is how much do you really want it to work. No half hearted efforts here, unless you are truly committed, if not then it would probably be best if you spent some time alone.
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The Grumpy Old Bloke
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