I discovered that I didn't do some things because I was concerned that I wouldn't do it the way that she likes to do things.
So we figured I was paranoid and that she needed to relax. So now, if I make dinner and it wasn't what she planned then... oh well.
If I prune the trees and she doesn't like how I did it the... oh well.
With this new understanding we are getting a better balance.
She doesn't want me washing her clothes.
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