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I disagree with Fenster. What she is doing is neglectful but it isn't necessarily deceitful. This is just how some people are wired. Sometimes all it takes is a gentle nudge to change a bit. IMHO, it is easier for a woman to change so they cater to a guy's high maintenance versus the other way just because women are generally more nurturing. If she is a keeper, just let her know how special she is when she gets back and how much you missed her (without overdoing it too much). This is a bit manipulative, but if it is how you feel it isn't bad.
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