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I'm not totally convinced that she is seeing someone else. Some people are just not as careful about other's feelings. I wouldn't take it too seriously at this point unless you guys are going to get serious and then it would be the time to have a serious talk. At this point, I would just hint that you would have liked to have stayed in more communication. Telling her that you missed talking to her occasionally is a good idea. In the meantime, I wouldn't limit your options. She has no problem with taking off for 6 weeks and keeping in limited contact. You should take this to mean she isn't taking it completely seriously.
The world is divided between high maintenance people and low maintenance people. My wife is very high maintenance while I'm more on the low end of high maintenance. We suit each other, because we both go out of our way to cater to the need to hear from each other daily. My sister-in-law is very low maintenance and won't necessarily call her husband to tell him that she has arrived somewhere safely. He, on the other hand, is extremely high maintenance and needs reassuring. She has had to learn to cater to him a bit more than she is used to. If you love someone, you can adjust, but it can be a cause of strife within the relationship.
It sounds like this relationship is the same way. She is low maintenance, and you are more high maintenance than she is.
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