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Everybody's different. Some people need lists. Some don't. Some people see something dirty, and clean it. Some people look at something dirty, and don't see it at all. I call it the invisibility factor.
I don't see dirt; my wife doesn't see the piles of stuff that accumulate around her on tables and chairs. The only way I'll do what she wants, and she'll do what I want, is to make lists. Either that, or nag forever.
Your wife should wise up. The fact that you're even asking for a list shows that you want to do the right thing. She needs to mature a little and realize that you will _never_ be just like her -- and don't have to be.
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