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Originally posted by JStrider
YourNameHere does have a point... and you think it would probably end your marriage if you tell her
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I remember hearing someone on a talk show bring this point up. A lot of time people just tell the other person just to relieve their guilt. Why not just keep this part to yourself and this be your pennance for the affair. Always having to live with the guilt and knowing what it would do to her if she found out, will make you think more about getting yourself into this situation next time. Your point is valid too, you would not want to know. Just patch it up and you hold all the guilt, don't share it just to ease your mind.