stop hanging out with her
let her know that you can't be friends with her
your feelings for something more are too strong
and that will lead to eventual hurt for both of you
and the best way to make her happiest is not to keep upsetting and confusing her
the best thing for you is to concentrate on finding someone else that is looking for a relationship
a few things can then happen
you take time away from her, find another girl, live happily ever after, she may come back into your life as a friend
you take time away (months), find a another girl or 2, this girl comes back into your life, now ready for something more with
you
she puts real thought into you willing to walk away just for her happiness and changes her mind
yeah, the first one worked for me
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