Ok Dei37 and I have an open relationship to an extent. We swing/swap with other couples. We never do anything without each other at least in the same home and without each other knowing what is going on. We share what went on and how we felt about it after ever time we meet a couple. We don't feel this is cheating because it's a mutual thing and we agree on what is going on. It had taught us to trust each other and forced us to have much more open clearn communication between us.
IF either one of us were to go off and have sexual relations with another person or even get physical (kissing, petting) with another person without telling each other about it later we would consider it cheating. Now we both scope out women on the street and flirt openly with others when we're together or not. That is the part that you need to discuss with your significant other. If you wouldn't appreciate him doing it then I would suggest you shouldn't do it.
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