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I have to agree with all of the folks who say there's no way you could possibly be fat, at 5'2" and 110.
This, however, is a little beside the point.
Allowing your bf to dictate your body image. Don't let him, and don't trust a word he says about being fat if he thinks you're fat at your current size. Sheesh. A "healthy" BMI is between 18 and 25, and you're at a very trim and healthy 20. Most Hollywood actresses, against whom we are tempted to measure ourselves, are between 15 and 20; below 18 is technically considered underweight and is not healthy.
Measure your body fat percentage. Muscle weighs more than fat, so if you're fit (for women, body fat of around 22% is pretty average) you're going to weigh slightly more than you would if your body fat percentage were higher. This is a more reliable gauge of fitness than weight.
Eat a balanced diet full of fruits and veggies. Eat a handful of nuts if you get snackish instead of chips. Lift weights.
And as important as physical attraction is, it's nothing compared to loving someone regardless of their appearance. Ratbastid and I have both put on some weight since we got married, and we know it, but it doesn't keep us from wanting to tear each other's clothes off.
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