I've been called a number of things..usually behind my back because most people wouldn't have the guts to say it to my face.. some of the vulgar names do anger me...but it just proves how morally inept and ignorant they are.
The only time it would hurt me was if it was alpha phi being the vulgar verbal slinger.
I grew up with my dad constantly belittleing me.
It was hard and I had to try to be tuff
Since I heard so much name calling growing up , I made a rule for myself that I still follow.
I will not call someone a vulgar name to their face. It's wrong and I feel very strongly about it. When I hear people do it , it makes me cringe...don't get me wrong if it's in jest and fun...fine I'll enjoy it and maybe join in...but if it's serious , I might tell you that you can say you don't like someone without the cuss words.
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