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Originally posted by Shyla Loral
I think just seriously thinking about cheating is cheating, at least in your mind. If you are very attracted to this person, you need to stay away from him/her in order to protect yourself and your relationship. If you hold hands, kiss, etc, I think that's cheating, too.
If you become seriously attracted to someone, unless you have an understanding with you s.o. that there is an open relationship, t hen you need to not do anything about it.
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Yes, don't make this mistake. Cheating is cheating, and it will save you a lot of heartache if you just follow this advice. Just stay away/avoid this person unless you want to doom your current relationship. It's really, really easy to fall into this trap, as I know from experience.

If it's not a geniunely open relationship and you haven't talked it over, don't get involved, and leave it at that.