I think just seriously thinking about cheating is cheating, at least in your mind. If you are very attracted to this person, you need to stay away from him/her in order to protect yourself and your relationship. If you hold hands, kiss, etc, I think that's cheating, too.
If you become seriously attracted to someone, unless you have an understanding with you s.o. that there is an open relationship, t hen you need to not do anything about it.
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