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Originally posted by Double D
I didn't and don't need the state & church to sanctify our union to enjoy all of the qualities of a united relationship.
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It is certainly true that you do not need to be married to reap nearly all of the benefits typically associated with marriage. Still, there was something powerful about getting all of my friends and family together and making a public commitment to my wife. It felt significant. I felt very close to my wife. It wasn't about the state. It certainly wasn't about the church.
On a related note, I was married in a town far away from my friends in family. Their willingness to endure the costs to come to my wedding was appreciated. I felt like each person who came was there for me, and I will be there for them if and when they need me.