Okay, this is the POV from a non-single, so feel free to ignore it. Thought I'd let you know ahead of time.
It's time to change your outlook.
When you think that the world owes you a living, and that it will hand you all that you deserve,
it does. There are simply a few things that you must remember:
- you must always retain, somewhere in your mind, the fact that you are Hot Shit. The course of evolution has existed simply to produce you.
- the person that you eventually choose to be with must be your equal. They must kick ass in so many ways that you get a little astounded by it.
- "Chance favors the prepared mind." -Louis Pasteur. GO AFTER THEM when the chance pops up. Don't back off. Wear them down. Keep pushing. They will eventually cave, or will go away exactly like they would have if you didn't push. You're not missing anything by being persistent.
I hope some of you take this to heart and that it helps.