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Oh i didn't mean to mnake my friend sound like a complete prick. He made a drunken mistake and lied to his girlfriend (shit this might make it even worse) but they had been through some tough times over a few ytears and have recently decided to et back together. People are human and they make mistakes, as long as he learns ffrom it, depsite it sbhould be a given not to cheat. I don't support cheating! or think its cool. He never lied to me or cheated on me and we've been good friend for a while so i forgave him and support him. I was just a little bitter cause he "seemed" to take the relationship for granted, but i only found out a whole lot more about it when they where seperated. Also because he's my friend and did this, doens't mean i am gonna do it. I indirectly saw how everythiong was fucked up so i don't think or feel i could ever cheat. Anyway, this isn't about my friend.
Also i don't really have a confidence problem. Sometimes i can be a little bit too alpha male and getting with random girls isn't too much of a problem for me. Just as kurty[B] said one night stands and other meaningless crap don't appeal to me much anymore and i'd much rather a relationship.
As for meeting new people, it has a bit to do with utility and game theory. not that i know much about either, i may even get them wrong, but basically the more risk averse you are the better the rewards if the risk pays off. The whole you only live once and will try anything once choice. So i might try changing some things up and take a lot more risks (within reason, avoiding breaking the law, personnal injury) and hopefully something more signifigant will happen.....
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