Pretty much, it all boils down to if you have been in a relationship before. If you have you probably do think about it when you're lonely. I do.
The way I deal with it is to think to why I got together with her in the first place, why she liked me, and why we were together for that long. I take all my positive traits and blow it up, and up goes my confidence, and down goes my lonliness.
Confidence = Conversation = Meet interesting people. It's up to you if you want to be with them or not.
Me? I like being single for now. Get to spend a lot of ME time, something I lacked when I put someone else in front of myself. But relationships are fun, esp. the part when you screw 5 times a day.
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