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I can relate to so much of all this.
I don't understand how so many girls can go out with so many jerks (people who really treat them badly) for so long (these relationships often endure) while I'm single. You'd rather get screwed over by this guy than go out with me?
I can only assume that these women don't want to go out with someone good for them and that they _need_ or _want_ to be treated badly. What other explanation is there?
Actually, here's a theory (and it's _only_ a theory). I'm a nice guy who's really good-looking ("beautiful" is the word most girls use to describe me, not that it has helped my ego any) but I just don't live a lifestyle where I meet a lot of people. I'm a hardcore geek so I don't have a lot of hobbies that involve meeting other people. When you think about it, if you don't meet new people, how _can_ you date?
So, I guess the real question is how do we meet new people? I know this question has been asked before and I can only assume that we haven't answered it 'cause it's a difficult problem. But if we, at least, _know_ that that is the problem then this will be helpful.
Oh yeah, now I know where I was going with all that. Maybe by wild coincidence, all these jerks that I speak of are really social people so all these girls that I never seem to date have no choice but to go out with these guys or stay celibate their entire lives never meeeting me...
Did this make any sense? Oh well, I'm going back to my FFT-A...
Hmm, there is a retro 80's night at a local dance bar tomorrow, perhaps I should go check it out?
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