I don't really have a problem with that, but meeting someone you haven't ever met before for the purpose of sex just doesn't seem all that great to me. It is risky as others have mentioned, and it would seem to me that you would only get the physical release. Why not just masturbate? Sex, to me, involves a whole bunch more than just the physical. There has to be a connection for me to really enjoy myself. This might be a surface connection (someone you just meet) or a deeper connection (longer-term girlfriend/wife). I did meet my wife through a personal ad that I placed. In many ways, I was lucky she was a virgin. It took all the pressure off of having sex, and we really got to know each other. Her birthday was today, and I told her that she was the center of my happiness (at least a large part of it anyway). I couldn't replace that with anyone.
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