Ah, the meat market scene. Makes me glad I'm married.....
Best Advice So Far:
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Originally posted by analog
Three little words: hands on hips.
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YES! Or, if she's rubbing against you while facing you, the small of her back.
This is physical contact of the "basically friendly but who knows where it could lead" variety. And it makes it clear the next move is hers.
Here's why you don't want it to seem like an accident: you WANT it to escalate. What you're looking for is a clear signal you can send that's not potentially offensive (like a big ol' ass grab) but DOES send the message that there's something going on. And you need to have the stones to not take it personally or as a big rejection if she turns and dances away from you. Say to yourself, "Well..... she's probably just not that kind of girl. Maybe I'll buy her a Shirley Temple at the bar later. Meantime, what have we over <i>here</i>?...."