Yeah i've thought about the accident idea, although its sometimes a little hard toget the courage to pull a move, cause its so hard when you get "shutdown"
I guess most of my intial contact is umm... "accidental" anyway...
Good idea though, also that'd also be a good talking point...maybe, by apologising
thanks lurkette, i thought some people may have thought this thread to be a little stupid and just write it off.