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Old values, old ways. They're being overly protective and clinging to the old customs. They will NEVER be happy until you have a nice little chinese girl willing to dote on you 24/7, like they expect a girl should from their own upbringing. If you love this girl, and want a future with her, tell her straight-out, not by skipping around the subject, that if you have to choose, you most definitely choose her. If she breaks up with you over something small like this, she wasn't worth having anyway.
(and don't flame me because i'm calling it a small thing- it IS a small thing, because it's from the parents' background, not just that they don't like her regardless.)
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