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It's generally kind of hard to surprise someone with anal. Not to say you can't, I suppose, but if you try you could end up with a painful experience for her. Not going to encourage her to try it again. She may even decide she doesn't trust you in bed.
You sound like you're mostly nervous about asking. This is understandable. But there's a good reason to just ask.
I'm going to make a sweeping characterisation here: people are generally either of a mindset where they're open to different kinds of sex, or not. The former are either happy to try stuff, or already have. You ask, and they'll say yes or no based on what they've tried and whether they like it. These are good people. Hang on to her if she turns out to be one of them.
Then there's people who aren't. They've got preconcieved notions about sex, not usually borne of experience, which are based around all sorts of socialisation issues. If she's on of these, yes, she may think you're disgusting or wierd for even asking. She may be judgemental. But you know what? It's good to find that sort of thing out. You can decide whether you want a relationship with someone who's got issues about their sexuality.
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