I got married to a younger girl last year.
She had gotten pregnant so i kinda felt a little forced into it by our families.
The fucked up part was I'd gotten a vasectomy 2 yrs. earlier.
I know you guys are thinkin" What a retard!!!" but the procedure was done in a military hospital and I was in a serious commited relationship with someone.
I gave her the benefit of the doubt.
So... we get married and 2 weeks later I have to go to New Brunswick for a month long execise.
I get back and she tells me that exact minute i come in the door that she is going to the club that night...she prefers if I not come and take into account she is 5 months pregnant.
So I lose it but she goes anyway and gets in at 5 am.
Fast forward a couple of weeks and I 'm in the middle of nowhere on another exercise when my satelite phone is goin off like nobodies business) i'm a lineman in the army so I ALWAYS have communication anywhere on the planet)
She's had the baby 8 weeks premature!!!
Major extraction of me occurs and in 3 hours I'm on my way to CHEO(sick kids hosp in Ontario) and I spend the next 6 weeks there with her and the 2LB baby.
I personally resucitate(sp?) this child 7 times!!!!!!
We finally get this kid back to our house after 6 wks of severe emotional trauma and she tells me she's slept with 5 other guys in the time we were married(3 months!) and that the baby is not mine!!!!
Now some people say you have to work the hardest in the first year of marriage but this is ridiculous!!!
I know some of the bleeding hearts are saying "well maybe with some therapy she'll be better and tyhe relationship will be stronger because of it"
FUCK THAT....I kicked that bitch out on her earwithin minutes of her telling me and the divorce is almost final after over a year!!!
so is this a bad thing that happened or did I just walk into it like a dummy???
Opinions???
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