I thought the days of having bachelor parties the night before the wedding were over? (Well, if they're not, they SHOULD be. What a dumb idea.)
Lurkette has it right - just ask if you're curious as to what's going to happen. If they're done properly, they should be somewhat representative of the groom's lifestyle - i.e. if he's not a drinker and doesn't like naked women, you're probably not going to be going to a strip club. Go with the flow and make sure somebody gets the groom home safe. Oh, and be sure to post back and let us know how it was!
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