I figure that in the end, it comes down to love.
Could you be in a loving relationship with the same sex, opposite sex, or both? Then the mentioned pigeon-holes apply.
Sex itself can be a very empty thing, used for instant gratification.
It can also be an act of love. Just a sexual act by itself is a very thin base for any assumptions.
Look at all the people looking for one-night stands, and how many of them don't care about their sex partner one bit.
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"What doesn't kill you, makes you bitter and paranoid". - SB2000
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