I have a cousin who was making $100k a year stripping 3 nights a week. Through her, I got to see what it was all about. It is just entertainment. A majority of the girls who do this do not come out unscarred emotionaly. Some do, but it is usually the exception. If you approach it in that way, strip clubs aren't all that disappointing. You just have to go into it with the mindset that you might get a dance or two, enjoy the scenery and don't take it seriously. I don't really go to them anymore. I would rather hang out at a club. There is one real truth. The sleazier the place, the better the action usually. There was one club in Texas that I went to a couple of times before I was married where there were only 3 or 4 girls and maybe 20 customers. After hanging out there most of the night, one of the girls asked if I wanted to go to breakfast with her and her friend. We went to breakfast. The next night I went in the club, and this girl would give me free table dances when she wasn't working elsewhere. We ended up having sex the rest of the night after she got off work (in her words, she was horny after taking Ecstacy). We went out a few more times after that. Great sex but bad emotional problems.
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