Man...
You guys are really a great help, i mean, everyones opinion is so valid and i take them all into account, i love it
Rogue49, i've seen you post in other threads and most of the things you wrote i never took into account. But reading what you just wrote really made me realize that things in the big picture just might end up the way I, and hopefully her, would like.
Slimyshaydee- Yea there was a point where i was willing to sacrifice our friendship to be with her. But i think that if i let things fall into place all will end up well. So long as im not too passive (or aggressive) about her, I think it just might work out.
Another thing, after i posted this thread, i ended up saying alot of things to her that i thought i wouldn't end up saying...and it felt good, damn good
Anyway, if anyone wants to know more about my relationship with "Sally" just PM me, i'll fill you in...and it'll make me feel special :-D
Many thanks again to everyone, and any more insight is appreciated and encouraged...post something even if you have little to say, it'll all help me out. This is something i've wanted to get off of my chest for quite some time and now that i've done it i feel great. Thanks everyone.