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I will keep quiet IF the secret that my friend confided in me has nothing to do with my husband. For example: If it was a personal health problem and she just didn't want anyone else knowing about it. If it is a deliberate deception though I would definately not keep it from hubby.
I feel that personally I need the freedom to talk about things and hear things that I don't HAVE to tell hubby about. I reserve that for things that don't affect him anyway.
Of course if it was a surprise party for him then I wouldn't tell him. If it was a surprise for one of his friends I still might not tell everything because he sometimes lets surprises slip.
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"Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama
My Karma just ran over your Dogma. 
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