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Originally posted by angela146
I hate to burst the bubble, but... a *lot* of women don't know what they like. Some have never liked it, i.e. never masturbated or did and it wasn't all that good and haven't been with a guy or gal who is any good at sex.
Even women who have had good sex are not necessarily able to tell you how to do it. It's difficult to show a man how to touch a woman. I can put my fingers in a particular place and show him but the places are *so* small, it's hard to see.
Advice: focus more on the emotional content than the physical. Get her to relax. Talk, listen and listen some more. Be gently and try stuff. Just be aware that some things she says can't be taken literally. (The exception: "no", "stop", "quit it" etc. Those you may take *very* litterally).
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Good points.
There is really no substitute for experience with the one woman. Thankfully, my g/f knows what she likes and does a pretty good job communicating that to me.
Now, after being together for almost seven months, I know what works and what doesn't. Of course, we are always open to new things.
