Communication is key on both sides. She needs to ask you just as much as you need to ask her. If she does have more experience, she will have at least some idea, but all guys are different in their likes and dislikes. If you do memorize some moves, you will likely be doing everything mechanically (i.e. by the book) rather than just enjoying the experience. When I was 15, I hadn't really French-kissed a girl yet. When a girl I liked found that out, she asked her best friend to teach me how to kiss since she was new to it as well. That friend is still imprinted on my brain, because she was so good at it. Yes, it was slightly clinical as she was telling me what to do and what not to do, but it was still very sexy.
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