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Her friend isn't the greatest person in the world, and she has affairs all the time
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Analog, you're not the only open-minded guy in this thread. Someone described as in the quote is someone I wouldn't want to start a relationship with, and LutherMac probably feels similarly. If the women were each others exclusive "side-item", I wouldn't be as concerned as:
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I caught her meeting guys online about 8 months ago, but I just shrugged it off for the time being.
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There's a pattern taking shape here, and it's not good for someone who thinks the relationship should be exclusive-monogamous.
It's time for a serious talk with her. These "flings" may be simple immaturity, and you have to let her know that their continuance will result in the end of the relationship. The "flings" may be the surface manifestations of a deep-seated psychological or sexual trauma, for which she will need some serious therapy and support.