Our oldest is 2 years and 9 months older than our youngest. The oldest is a high-functioning Autistic while the second is just a normal little boy. The first is a bit demanding while the second is just a quiet good-natured little boy. In our opinion, the second was much easier as we knew what we were doing in terms of feeding and caring for the child (and also because he doesn't have the long-term problems that the oldest has).
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